You’ve said “yes!” to the most important question of your life, now it’s time to pop a big question of your own: who will be your bridesmaids?  Choosing the people that stand next to you on the biggest day of your life is nothing to be taken lightly. It encompasses a host of decisions – who, what they wear, even down to the order in which they surround you. Certainly not least of all is selecting the appropriate jewelry. After all, every element contributes to the overall aesthetic and emotional tone of your big day. To help you navigate the process, we’ve come up with a question-and-answer guide to help curate the perfect jewelry for your wedding party on your perfect day. 

Should Bridesmaids Wear Their Own Jewelry? 

A lot of brides will hear “may we wear our own jewelry?” once they’ve chosen their squad. A valid question, especially if the bride hasn’t dictated what she’d prefer. Most people know what they wear well and they’d rather not be on the hook to buy something they may never wear again. While there’s no rule that says your ladies can’t wear their own pieces, most brides prefer to choose the jewelry themselves to ensure a cohesive look that complements the vibe they’re trying to create. Most brides also seize this opportunity to give jewelry as a proposal gift and a thank-you for the ones that support them on the happiest day of their lives. 

 Does Bridesmaids’ Jewelry Have to Match? 

Just like the ever-growing trend that bridesmaids do not have to wear matching dresses, some brides don’t mind if the jewelry doesn’t match, either. You, as a bride, may love the idea of your girls showcasing their individual style and let them have free rein. On the other hand, too many different pieces could give off a messy look that no bride wants on her big day. There’s a fine line between avoiding matchy-matchy and absolute chaos. For this reason alone, most brides opt to have a say-so in what their attendants wear so that itkeeps things consistent.  

Should Brides Pay for Their Bridesmaids’ Jewelry? 

It’s probably best practice to purchase any jewelry you’re asking someone to wear for your day. Look at it as doing double-duty –  gift jewelry as a thank-you and ask it to be worn on the wedding day. Think customized necklaces or personalized charm bracelets to make your ladies feel extra appreciated. If that’s the route you take, consider these tips when choosing your bridesmaids’ jewelry. 

Overall, you want bridesmaids’ jewelry to accentuate the bride’s jewelry. Think complementary and cohesion. If you’re wearing a pearl necklace, consider pearl studs for your bridesmaids; if you want to go big with dangly diamond strands, diamond studs for your crew will go swimmingly. No bride wants to compete for attention with her bridesmaids on her big day. 

From classic studs to meaningful personalized pieces, the right jewelry adds the finishing touch to your bridal party’s look. Find thoughtful bridesmaids’ gifts at Schiffman’s Jewelers in Greensboro, Winston-Salem, and Lexington, KY